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Could there be simple answers to the bullying situation that would assist victims to deal with these crimes of the heart, and often the body as well?

Everyone has strong opinions on what should be done. They range from threatening the kids, parents, teachers and administrators with any number of legal actions including prison, to changing schools and even relocating to new cities.

Even if all of these solutions take place, will this heal the hurt experienced by the one who was bullied? Of course not. Will it teach them what to do to assure these situations wont continue? No. So what can be done?

Ive seen what can happen in a persons life – beyond what we imagine is even possible – as Ive been teaching people about The Simplicity of Stillness for quite some time. In every age group, including the very young, when a person begins to practice this unique form of meditation – life shifts. I can hear some of you groaning now too simple too esoteric

Consider those times you didnt know what to do and were in a very challenging situation, when suddenly from somewhere inside – there was an answer and you knew exactly what action to take.

The infinite intelligence we connect with in Stillness has answers and once you know how to connect to this place consistently, there is an enormous amount of strength that opens, an inner knowing that provides a greater clarity than weve ever had before.

This is not something we are taught in school, and yet if it was, the bullies as well as the victims, would discover the inherent greatness that lies at the core of each human being, and we would see these threatening actions diminish as each person recognizes their true value.

My Dad was a bully, he put his fist through the only locked door in the house to teach me a lesson he obviously felt I couldnt learn in any other way. I left home that night. I was sixteen. The words he spoke actually caused more hurt than the burning wounds left from his belt. Years later I discovered his Dad had bullied him.

I lived with hate in my heart and no understanding of my self-worth into adulthood from my fathers bullying. I imagine he also experienced the suffering these unconscious acts always cause. Once this pain began to heal, I found the courage to do many things I never could have before, and I learned to appreciate each person for who they are and what theyve come here to contribute.

Parents and children can bring Stillness into their lives very simply. Today it can happen as easily as playing music from a Stillness Session CD before going to sleep at night. I know an 11 year old who plays it on her iPod, while her mom goes to sleep listening, they say it has shifted their lives and has opened better communication between them as well.
When we find courage from that well of power that lies within us, we grow from the knowledge that we can make good decisions on our own. Suddenly our child recognizes they have answers as well, and they want to share their ideas and hear our thoughts.

This alone could be life-altering as so many of the kids who are getting bullied or have committed suicide, stopped talking to their parents about their distress and the challenges they were facing.

Imagine what could happen if this simple practice was adopted in school systems today. Imagine what could happen if each person recognized the value we have to offer each other. Its a game changer one that has lasting results.

Hate, Anger, Cycles of Pain, Prison,… or Stillness, Clarity, Strength, Appreciation for Humankind Choose

Marlise Karlin is a spiritual teacher who offers people a profound connection to their essence through The Simplicity of Stillness.

In 2001, a series of profound experiences completely shifted Marlises perception of life forever. After a period of integration, Marlise was then guided to begin sharing this profound understanding with the world

For more information and to sign up for your FREE Stillness eCourse see http://www.marlisekarlin.com

 

Bullies always prey on weak kids who can’t seem to stand up for themselves. Bullying is common many schools. Your child actually could be a victim of bullying in school. You may not be aware of it, but your child may be suffering in silence because of the constant bullying he gets in school. As a parent, it’s your role to make sure that your kid hasn’t become a victim of bullies. There are telltale signs which would tell you that your kid has been a constant target of school bullying.

 

If you’ve noticed that your child who was once calm and cheerful is suddenly become withdrawn and constantly angry, chances are that he’s a victim of bullying. When this happens, your child could start bullying younger member of your family as his way of retaliating against the school bullies. With younger siblings, your child could feel powerful, as opposed to how he feels in the presence of the bullies in school. Try to talk to your child, create strong bond with him so that he will learn to open himself up about the bullying. On your side, you can think of ways to rectify the school bullying situation.

 

Another sign that a child is a victim of bullying is soiling and bedwetting of pants. Bear in mind that bedwetting stage usually occur around age 7 of a child. For a kid who’s a victim of bullying, other signs would also develop, like nightmares and fear of school bullies when walking down the street. Be observant if your child suddenly makes excuses to walk the other way just to avoid the bullies.

 

As a parent, it’s our job to keep our children safe at all costs. However, we can’t keep our eyes on them all the time. So, the least we can do is pay close attention to their actions to know if something is amiss.

 

 

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Bullying In Schools:
What is Bullying? And What are The Many Types of Bullying in Schools?
Bullying is defined as the repetitive intent to hurt or damage an individual or a group of people that have little power to help themselves. It is an epidemic with far-reaching consequences for the perpetrators and the victims alike. Bullies use name-calling, rumors, and sometimes physical attacks to damage their victim’s self-esteem. Understanding who bullies are and how and why they choose their victims may be the first step in halting these hurtful behaviors.
What is bullying in schools?
It seems like the answer would be obvious, but it’s really much more complex than most people realize. A lot of parents think that the signs of bullying are obvious. Their child comes home beaten up regularly, or with bruises and other signs of physical abuse. Maybe he’s constantly “losing” his lunch money or spending longer than usual doing his homework because he’s really doing it for someone else. These can be classic factors of what is bullying in schools, but they are the most cliche ones. They’re real and they do still happen to kids today. However, today’s bullying in schools can take many other forms that parents may not recognize.
Bullying is not a new phenomenon. Children and teens have experienced it for decades. Many parents also consider it an essential rite of passage. However, recent numbers have made everyone, including educators, child psychologists, parents and pediatricians, sit up and take notice. One in seven children in American schools is either a bully or a victim.

Read more about Victims of Bullying here:

The Many Types of Bullying in Schools

What is Bullying in Schools? How to Recognize It

Video on Bullying in Schools Offers Valuable Tips to Parents

The Sad Elements of Bullying in Schools

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Nobullying.com is an online forum aimed at educating, advising, counselling and all importantly, helping to stop bullying, in particular, cyber bullying.This website started as a social responsibility project for us, but through the support of a community of parents, educators and teenagers – it has grown into one of the biggest anti bullying and online safety websites in the world. We owe a great deal of thanks to everyone who has contributed to the website, from donating their time, donating written articles to help others to even sharing the website on social media for others to find. Every kind action, big or small – has enabled us to help others. If you want to know more on the website statistics or who we are – check out the bottom of this article. We hope you too will also press the “share” button on the page – to share the website with your friends on social media – who may be facing a problem with bullying today.We at Nobullying.com work closely with and are delighted to gain the insight of many professionals including psychologists, teachers and other experts, we really cherish the input and experiences of parents and children of all ages, on this topic.
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When I was in the 4th grade I got my first pair of glasses. I didn’t
realize what I couldn’t see until I began wearing glasses, then contact
lenses and eventually even lasik surgery. Until then, I thought everyone saw
things as I saw them. But once I could really see, I finally realized how bad
my vision had been all along.

In schools today it’s unfortunate that some administrators, teachers and
students are the same way. They have such limited vision that they cannot see
what is happening in their schools. The statistics are continuing to get
worse, literally thousands of students each day are staying home from school
out of fear. Fear of being talked about, teased, tormented and made fun of
to the point they believe they are an unfit out cast.

We have all seen the 1983 movie The Christmas Story, when 9 year old Ralphie
is getting teased and tortured everyday about little things such as not being
tough, his friends and his glasses. Then it happens one day, Ralphie
completely loses it after taking one last snow ball to the face! What does he
do? He charges the school bully Scut Farkus, and proceeds to beats up the
bully until his face is completely bloody and his mother comes down the
street and pulls him off of the bully. Back then, not much harm in that, we
might say the bully got what he deserved and Ralphie stood up for himself and
those around him. Problem solved! But fast forward 27 years later and see
how man different problems we would have. We already know that Ralphie gets
arrested, expelled from school, not to mention the troublemaker label and
even becomes the target of fighting from the gangs attached to the bully and
the list goes on.

This is an easy one to see, but my challenge to schools is what about the
Ralphie’s that would never fight back, the ones that simply going on
beating themselves up in their head thinking they are not good enough, they
don’t belong here, or even here on earth. Or the teenagers that become
depressed, they shut down and they begin to drink, smoke or cut until their
problems seem to go away! This is the slippery slope we see every day in the
lives of teenagers across the country, or should I say those of us that have
had a vision upgrade can see every day.

The reason I bring this up is there are hundreds of thousands of kids that
are waiting for someone to stand up for them, let them know they are safe and
that in spite of all the things being said and done, they are good enough to
be here and certainly good enough to achieve their goals and dreams in their
life.

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Kathy Griffin may be a comedienne, but the flame-haired funny lady isn’t joking around when it comes to bullying. Hollywoodnews.com reports that Griffin recently appeared on CNN’s Larry King Live to comment on the recent teen suicides. Griffin didn’t make a single joke during her hour-long appearance as part of a panel on teen bullying hosted by King that also included Wanda Sykes, Nate Berkus, Tim Gunn, Chely Wright and Lance Bass. During the panel, Griffin announced plans to donate her entire salary from her Dec. 16 concert at the Gibson Amphitheatre in Universal City to The Trevor Project, an organization dedicated to ending suicide among LGBTQ youth.

The Emmy-winning comedienne is quickly becoming as well known for her philanthropy as for her jokes. The Los Angeles Times reports that Griffin was among the celebrities at the 32nd Carousel of Hope event in Beverly Hills. Held on Oct. 23, this year’s event honored Quincy Jones and Maria Shriver and featured a star-studded batch of performers, presenters and guests including Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony, Akon, Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson, Rod Stewart, Don Johnson, Stevie Wonder, Vanna White, Raquel Welch, Nicky Hilton, Lisa Rinna and Harry Hamlin and more.

The annual fundraiser for children’s diabetes has been hosted by society doyenne Barbara Davis since its inception, and she and her late oil tycoon husband Marvin Davis acquired the Beverly Hills Hotel and 20th Century Fox in the 1980s. Barbara Davis has raised $ 75 for the Children’s Diabetes Foundation and the Barbara Davis Center for Childhood Diabetes in Denver over the years. Griffin was among the guests who paid $ 1,000 for a ticket and told the Times, “I’ve got to tell you who I came with. I came with Jane Fonda. Isn’t that a great unlikely situation? I love it. I was ready to come by myself because I’m single, but then I said, ‘I’m too insecure.’ And Jane Fonda said, ‘You can drive with us.’ So she and her boyfriend, Richard [Perry, a music producer], drove me here.” Maybe Griffin isn’t on the D-list anymore after all!

Griffin’s popular Bravo reality show My Life on the D List is back for its sixth season. According to the official Bravo website for the show, the two-time Emmy-winning series is continuing to stir up trouble in Hollywood-and Washington! This season sees Griffin storming the capital to repeal “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,” remodeling her Los Angeles home, judging a toddler beauty pageant alongside her 90-year-old mother and series regular, and stalking A-list stars like Liza Minnelli, Kristin Chenoweth and Lauren Conrad.

Tuning into Bravo isn’t the only way fans can get their Kathy Griffin fix, however, as the comedienne is currently on tour. Kathy Griffin tickets are available to see her stand-up routine in cities like Philadelphia, Pa.; Albany, N.Y.; Easton, Pa.; Baltimore, Md.; Mashantucket, Conn.; Worchester, Mass.; Las Vegas, Nev.; Palm Desert, Calif.; Universal City, Calif.; Santa Barbara, Calif.; Thackerville, Okla. and Jacksonville, Fla. Griffin will remain on the road through mid-December and already has a few dates in the books for 2011.

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With bullying such a common problem in today’s society parents can’t afford to ignore this issue. Here are 10 quick tips for parents to be proactive about bullying. These ideas will help children feel better about themselves and consider the feelings of others – useful strategies for children whether they are being bullied or are doing the bullying.

1. Respect your child’s positive qualities and tell them what they are to boost their self-esteem. The better children feel about themselves the more bully proof they are and the less likely they are to bully others.

2. Model respectful behavior yourself – our children copy what we do. E.g. How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic and your children are in the car?

3. Listen to your children with empathy so they grow to show it for others. Saying things like “That must have been very scary for you” helps your children, because their feelings are being acknowledged and they truly feel heard.

4. Encourage your child’s social and emotional intelligence by talking about feelings and how other people feel. Questions like: “What do you think it was like for the others when that happened?” help children to see things from outside of their egocentric point of view.

5. Talk to your children about aggressive, submissive and assertive behavior so they understand about power in relationships.

6. Notice when your children are behaving well and tell them! Focusing on positive behavior is such a simple way to get more of it as well as boosting your children’s self-esteem!

7. Give your children opportunities to share their ideas about fighting and bullying and what might work to stop it. Ask questions like: “If … happened, what could you do to keep yourself safe?” to allow children to work out what they could do by themselves.

8. Teach them some concrete strategies to try as well. E.g. instead of focusing on the bullying imagine the bully swelling up and popping. Strategies like this which help a child stay calm can be very helpful. When children learn to be aware of their reactions and the part this plays in being bullied, they can choose to react differently.

9. Stay up to date with your child’s school’s bullying policy and about bullying in general. What do you know about bullying and technology? Find out more about cyberbullying so you are informed.

10. Support your children in solving their own fights or bullying issues rather than stepping in and doing it for them. Remember your response as a parent models a powerful message for your children.

Two coaching questions that are helpful around bullying are:

1. How do I show respect to my children?
2. Am I supporting them to solve their own problems?

If you ask yourselves coaching questions such as these everyday you will be building a close and loving relationship with your children as well as supporting them to deal with bullying and other challenges to the best of their capabilities. After all, isn’t this what children need as they grow towards independence?

Barbara Beccari M.Ed and parent-coach, is co-author of a beautiful children’s picture book about respectful relationships. Barbara is co-founder of parentSCOPE, a parent-coaching business acknowledged for its innovation. parentSCOPE supports parents to have loving and close relationships with their children, from babies to teens. Check out http://www.parentscope.com.au to find out more.

The dawn of a new era has arrived in the fight against cyberbullying with the official launch of Cyber Bullying Report. An Anti-Bullying and Internet Safety Services resource for fighting bullies and keeping you up to date on current events. The crown jewel of Cyber Bullying Report is the Anti-Cyberbullying Second Strike System anonymous publishing service designed to help victims of cyber bullies turn the tables on cyber bullies and cyber stalkers. This total package of internet safety resources is also fully automated current Cyber Security News machine.

The Stop Cyber Bullies Anti-CyberBullying Second Strike System is the ultimate weapon of mass victim empowerment that lets you the public take the web back from online bullies and stalkers. Whether you are a business looking to dispel a few dozen false complaints from former employees on consumer fraud sites or an individual looking to consolidate the truth in one centralized place and demand that your tormentor knock it off. All you have to do is sign up for a free membership and verify your email address. Not just for victims this system allows anyone to become an instant cyberbullying journalist by contributing links to documented incidents of cyberbullying and cyberstalking incidents in the news media.

Cyber Bullying Report is more than just a tool for cyber bully management. It is an all in one current events resource for the greater safety of the internet thanks to its Cyber Security Newsreel that brings you the latest cyberbullying, cyberstalking, cyberterrorism, anti-virus, and network security news from leading news agencies selected for reliability as well as popularity combined with computer virus alerts from leading network security companies.

CyberBullyingReport.com is off to a slow start due to the lead developer suffering a severe case of vertigo and is just now getting back on track to unleash its unlimited do gooder potential as soon as possible, but it needs your help today. Tell your friends about the next frontier in bully management so they can help join the fight to stop cyber bullies and make the internet safety today, tomorrow, and forever.

Arnold Wormser is an anti-bullying advocate and internet safety enthusiast. He is currently supporting the efforts of Cyber Bullying Report to stop cyber bullies.

Adults in a school community can achieve a great deal to counter bullying. However, the potential to make a real change lies with the students. Students respond more readily to the opinions of their peers. With this in mind, teachers or counselors should come up with a role-play which requires five players – the bully, the victim, the defender, the re-enforcer and the outsider. In the first role play, the players should support the bully. Then the role-play is reversed and they should support the victim. This role play is a powerful way to show the role of the bystanders in controlling what actually happens in the playground. The swing of power can just as easily be towards the victim, thus rejecting and controlling the bully’s aggressive behavior.

This exercise is conducted with 11 Grade Peer Support Leaders, so that they can teach it to their Grade 6 or Grade 7 groups. The leaders found it very effective, as the power struggle is felt even in role-play. It illustrates well how power is given to people by bystanders.

Victim empowerment helps the victim to gain confidence, become independent and resist bullying. Some programs teach the victims how to answer bullies to disarm and confuse them, thus reducing their power. This is an area where more research is urgently needed. The No Blame Approach needs to be adopted by all staff members when dealing with bullying. Most students, given the opportunity to reflect on their aggression without blame, are remorseful.

Anti-bullying now need to go several steps further – past the obvious, into the minds of students, who are, after all, the experts – and address those more subtle factors that act as barriers to bystander intervention. Critical to the creation of a non-violent, peaceful culture is the visible involvement of the whole school community. The perception of students in this study was that they had no support from the principal, teachers, non-teaching staff and entire student body.
This exercise is conducted with 11 Grade Peer Support Leaders, so that they can teach it to their Grade 6 or Grade 7 groups. The leaders found it very effective, as the power struggle is felt even in role-play. It illustrates well how power is given to people by bystanders.
Victim empowerment helps the victim to gain confidence, become independent and resist bullying. Some programs teach the victims how to answer bullies to disarm and confuse them, thus reducing their power. This is an area where more research is urgently needed. The No Blame Approach needs to be adopted by all staff members when dealing with bullying. Most students, given the opportunity to reflect on their aggression without blame, are remorseful.

Any Information on the basis of anti-bullying policies will be not effective if not students are motivated enough to get involved. It is indeed critical that programs now address the emotional deterrents of fear, awkwardness, group affiliation, enthusiasm and lack of concern. Future policies should examine the culture of the school, which lay down the behavioral code for incoming students.

By: Francis David

Francis helps parents, administrators and teachers learn about Character Education and how the Just Do The Right Thing Program can help kids of all levels find success both in and outside the Classroom.

Unpopular Opinion: Cyber Bullying

My not so popular opinion on Cyber Bullying.
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