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Low Self Esteem – A deep look at why women tend to have more self-esteem issues than men.

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Video Summary:
Women often suffer from low self-esteem. While their issues are perhaps more visible than men’s because of their willingness to own them, there are cultural differences that contribute to this sexual disparity.

The two components of self esteem are self-efficacy and self-respect. Self-efficacy is one’s feeling of being able to trouble-shoot and control one’s life. Self-respect refers to one’s belief in one’s own self-worth and right to happiness. If either of these factors is deficient, self-esteem will suffer.

Cultural norms play a major role in eroding female self-esteem via undermining self-efficacy. Boys are encouraged to aggressively act upon the world, to take an active role in their life. Girls are more often conditioned to be nurturing and conciliatory in anticipation of future family life. The boot camp of life tends to teach and cultivate boys’ power in the world. Girls don’t typically have such an arena to hone their life skills, so they are more easily dominated.

Biology reinforces these roles. Feminine energy throughout nature tends to be more nurturing and conciliatory, while masculine energy tends to be more aggressive and dominant. But self-actualization is equally important to women as it is to men. Women need to learn to embrace their feminine energy while remaining true to their unique direction. By maintaining self-efficacy and therefore their self-esteem, women will be less likely to fall into the trap of co-dependent relationships.

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Episode 5 – Self-Esteem!

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Jessica Lizama // youtube.com/exoticjess // @exoticjess
Nikki Philllippi // youtube.com/nikkiphillippi // @nikkiphillippi
Kelsey Darragh // youtube.com/kelseydarragh // @kelseydarragh
Miranda Mayo // @mirandarmayo

Related Articles:
How to Stop the Comparison Game — http://girlsguideto.com/article/how-stop-comparison-game
9 Simple Tricks to Build Self-Confidence — http://girlsguideto.com/article/9-simple-tricks-build-self-confidence
9 Ways to Be Kind to Yourself — http://girlsguideto.com/article/9-ways-be-kind-yourself
17 Healthy Promises to Make Today — http://girlsguideto.com/article/17-healthy-promises-make-today
Ten Steps to a Positive Body Image — http://girlsguideto.com/article/ten-steps-positive-body-image

Created By: Brette Borow of GirlsGuideTo and Big Frame Co.
Directed by: Amy Kernan-Bennett
Directed by: Carolina Roca-Smith
Executive Producers: Sarah Penna, Steve Raymond, Rachel Skidmore and Brette Borow
Produced by: Amy Kernan-Bennett
Produced by: Carolina Roca-Smith
Edited by: Vanessa Rojas
Line Producer: AJ Tesler
Production Coordinator: Cher Lytle

Director of Photography: Bret Watkins
Audio: Reece Miller
Camera Operator: Tom Arsenault
Camera Operator: Matt Drieling
Production Assistant: Parker Friedrich

Keep Calm, Kelsey’s On Written by: Kelsey Darragh
Creator & Founder of GirlsGuideTo: Brette Borow
Editor of GirlsGuideTo: Katie Ostoich
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